I was raised strict-Catholic growing up - everything was black and white. My Dad traveled for sales and my mom wasn't very social, the end result was that I had a complete inability to vibe with others, make friends, or have any girlfriends. I was hospitalized for depression twice as a kid, once in first grade and once in eighth. Fast forward to 19 years old when I was hanging around some people I shouldn't have, and ended up losing the V card to a prostitute. This reflected my state of affairs. Later on in life, I ended up getting on a Catholic dating site and meeting my ex wife, who I stayed unhappily married to for 10 years.

I was in my early 30's when I finally broke the mold. At age 35, I decided to get a divorce and start living life on my own terms. After my divorce, I met a girl who had BPD and she took me on a wild ride over 1.5 years that ended up leaving me cheated on, broken up with, and my confidence shattered once again.

Around that time I started studying attraction and I was able to re-attract my ex. That lasted all of 1 month before she dumped me again, but by that time I had started to build the skills that laid the foundation for my success in the single dating world.

After we broke up, I focused ALL of my time on work, BJJ, and DATING. I went out 4x per week off and on for about 1.5 years. I had all the experiences I never got to have as a younger guy, but it was a real challenge to solve all the bad wiring from my youth. Ultimately, I debriefed every female interaction with my self and became 1% better with women day-by-day.

After about a year into that, I became an UNSTOPPABLE force in the dating arena. It wasn't long after I had about 7 girls chasing me, that I met who would later become my wife. And after I saw that a healthy, good relationship could come out of the entire process, I realized that it was my MISSION to help other men achieve the same thing in the ways I had pioneered as a single guy.